they have chosen each other to love and care, not to resent and not take each other for granted, society has divided and labelled them into women and men… however there is nothing they can’t do about that, but all that she asks between them is not let this division affect their union and household.

she would like them to think of and see each other as a human being… that they get tired, have moments of higher and low emotions. “In case he does not know, their house and parenting is a shared responsibility and commitment that needs consistency from both of them to their children, not a favour they do each other or baby sitter to their own children.”

Therefore it should always be their first priority. if he cannot appreciate the countless hours of working, she does as a household Administrator/Manager at least respect it…

    Put a pinch of love in everything you do

“you both are responsible for it, don’t let her do it all alone because she is a woman, a mother and must do it just because… in so many cases women were left to parent and take care of the house alone.

Therefore when it comes to it, both of them should embrace the full package and do it with love so it does not feel like an obligation; if so they might giving it up in the end”.  

Society imposed the roles of a woman, but women also work and contribute towards the household income where before it was just a housewife. However, into today’s society beside bringing some income to the household women are still continuously managing to be the greatest they can be in looking after their whole family.

Which in her opinion she does not agree with terms of or so-called housewives, apparently in  the eyes of many does nothing; although there have been some improvements in the way women are viewed and treated in our society besides some does not respected it anymore, she rather think of it as household Administrator/Manager…

Women are the foundation in the home and men are the concrete and the roof which provides protection to the foundation of the house…Therefore he should make sure that the concrete and roof are well laid, so it would not damage the foundation of the house.

Evermore she also would like them to think that he is not responsible for her whole happiness and that she is not also responsible for he’s whole happiness… but they can be responsible for their own individual happiness and then meet halfway.

However if there will be a moment in their lives that they feel lost and need to find their own feet to be happy with their own selves, she can only ask to be openly honest with each other to sort out their differences.

Therefore It won’t work two miserable people in a relationship especially with child/children in the middle; and before making each other miserable, and their love starts to bend not broken, just like Pink sings or it becomes too late like turning table by Adele.

Please let’s not hold them responsible for their whole individual happiness…and please let them just see each other as human being…and most importantly be humility, submission and above all respect each other.

PS: Men and Women please do not lose yourself on your individual’s projects and plans as this will make you lose focus on your family mutual projects and plans. therefore respect each other.

Invest in your relationship by supporting each other with your family and household responsibilities as well with individuals’ projects, a well-cared and loved woman by a man she will always be submission and devoted to the men regardless…

                                                                                                   Mums Allowed

                                                                                                                 JR