My daughters and I are very close, and I intend to keep it this way, we are best friends and my every day exciting adventures and I let them know every day that I always will be their best friends for life and that they are my heaven on earth, besides having our moments and when it comes to that I’m just the mother I make sure discipline and boundaries needs to be taken seriously by the girls.

There were times where that I would tell them off and they would tell me that they are not my friends any more… I replay to them saying that you are my best friends and that I would never want to lose them as friend, or they would say that “I do not like you any more mummy” and would simply repeat to them that’s too bad because I love them and that they are the love of my life and that I would not be able to live without them… All those negatives words were just to get a negative reaction from me towards them as well, but they never got it and guess what they’ve stopped.

Why did I Use this technic, I had to be intelligent as I like to pay attention and observing my surroundings, I have seen parents reacting negatively towards their children and this had pulled them apart, they have lost bond, affection, and trust etc.

Observing today’s society, I am transferring to them that they need to prioritise themselves, love themselves first … Always speak the truth and be honest with themselves so is easy to be honest with others, to apologise for their wrongdoing and ask to be forgiven, and actually, mean it.  If they choose not to, they will be in more trouble to the point that makes harder to find the solutions to sort out the issue, be happy with themselves/ inner selves so they will be able to understand their own feeling and other. Because when you are within peace with yourself, you are in peace in general and you will have stronger mental health in my beliefs.

Additionally, you are in total control of your mind, you get to choose what to think and people in this position choose not to think what does not upset them, they choose to be happy, therefore, they will be able to visualise their surrounding and take their own decision in the most sensitive ways that they will feel comfortable with as they face people trying to understand or dealing with their own issues and individualities…